Here’s some general info about Virgos that might give you an idea of what they’re all about:
- strengths: perfectionist, realistic, sincere, reliable, practical, patient
- weaknesses: critical, pushes himself too much, restless
If you’re on the prowl for a Virgo man, the first thing you need to know is that a mushy, emotion packed, outburst of affection is NOT going to get you anywhere when it comes to this guy.
A Virgo is, first and foremost, very realistic, and it’s usually very difficult for them to relax, and get carried away in a big fairy tale that you might want. Too generous displays of emotion, and getting showered in affection, are only going to scare him off, and make him even more distant.
Virgos are perfectionists in general, so a Virgo man is going to notice everything! He’s known to over analyze stuff when it comes to his appearance, his looks and everything else – if he notices a little thread hanging off his shirt it’s going to drive him nuts.
While he’s striving for perfection in everything he does, he’s also going to want someone he can’t find a flaw in.
He’s going to go for a girl who is super slick, who obviously takes good care of herself, and he’ll look at every single detail.The thing about Virgos, and romance that can get in your way, is the fact that they just don’t seem to mind being single at all – they simply do not chase girls. Combine that with the fact that you are chasing him, and openly showing your affection, might not do much help, since he’s not that sentimental. You see how it can’t get a bit complicated?But don’t despair. It’s not all bad. In fact, it’s not bad at all. You see, even though he’s not the one to fall in love at first sight, and throw big romantic gestures at you all the time, once you get his heart, you’ll be rewarded with a partner who’ll make you feel loved and appreciated.
He’ll be sincere, dependable, patient, loving. All the things you might think aren’t in him, because he doesn’t show his emotions, will be so much more profound once he decides to form a relationship with you.
How to get there? Play it smart! Yes, he’s kind of into looks, and cleanliness, and stuff, but in the end, the most important thing you’ll need to have to seduce a Virgo man, is a good brain in your head! He’ll go for someone who can hold a conversation, who has a sense of humor to match his, someone who has etiquette, manners, poise.
Don’t worry – you show him that you’re ‘clean’ inside and out, and you’ll be in his heart in no time – and as I’ve already said, being in his heart is going to be amazing!
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HOW TO ATTRACT A VIRGO MAN
Five Clever Ways to Make a Virgo Man Fall in Love With You!
1) Ask For His Practical Assistance
To attract a Virgo man, be prepared to take the lead but don't be too pushy or obvious. Because Virgos are among the shiest men in the Zodiac, you'll be waiting forever if you hold back until a Virgo guy gets round to making the first approach. At the same time, however, you'll need to be quite subtle and low-key in your seduction tactics. Most Virgo men will run a mile if you give the impression you're out to 'get' them. A clever way of attracting this guy's interest without making him feel threatened is to ask for his practical advice or assistance. Down to earth and logically minded, Virgo males love to fix things and find it hard to refuse a cry for help from a damsel in distress. Best hold your fire when trying to seduce a Virgo man. Reel him in slowly and gently by first cultivating him as a friend.
2) Look Neat, Clean And Tidy
The Virgo man is a perfectionist - so to attract him you'll need to appear as perfect as possible! Make a big effort to be clean, tidy and well presented. Many Virgo guys are neat freaks and will be turned off if you seem grubby, dishevelled or disorganized. Smart, well groomed and healthy is the look you're aiming for, and be sure to pay special attention to your nails, hair and shoes. Virgo men have an all-seeing eye for detail that will pick up on every single little flaw in your appearance and note it down against you. Don't make the mistake of vamping it up or dressing too provocatively. To the typical Virgo man, overt sexiness can seem cheap and tasteless. For this reason, strong fragrances and over-the-top make-up are a big no-no. Play it sweet, demure and coyly flirtatious to win a Virgo man's heart.
3) Appeal To His Dry Sense Of Humor
Because the Virgo man hates all kinds of excess and falseness, remember that less is more when you're trying to win his heart. Avoid giving him lots of gushing compliments, which he's likely to find shallow and insincere (and certainly don't expect any in return). A few words of honest appreciation will suffice to let a Virgo guy know you're interested, and although he may brusquely dismiss them with a self-deprecating comment, secretly he'll be thrilled you find him attractive. He tends to respond well to humor, but dirty jokes and rumbustious belly laughs aren't really his scene. Virgo men have a great sense of irony, and can be very sarcastic in a highly amusing way. Make a Virgo laugh by appealing to his clever dry wit, and you'll massively boost your chances of seducing this guy.
4) Impress Him With Your Common Sense
No matter how you're feeling, try to stay cool and self-composed. Virgo men tend to be very rational, often feel uncomfortable with strong displays of emotion and have no time for drama queens. Unloading your emotional baggage onto a Virgo man you don't know very well is a good recipe for scaring him away. He'll be more attracted to you if you show him you have a sensible head on your shoulders and can talk about things in a calm and logical way. Virgo males are impressed by intelligence and commonsense rather more than they are by good looks. Because this guy takes a somewhat old-fashioned approach to love and has impeccable manners, he may prefer to delay physical intimacy until he knows you reasonably well. For this reason it's a mistake to push for any kind of sex on a first date.
5) Be Ready To Play The Waiting Game
Don't mistake the Virgo male's dispassionate attitude for lack of interest. Because he's highly analytical by nature, regardless of how much he likes you he'll take a while to make his mind up about whether or not to get involved. Virgo guys are often loners and can manage quite well for extended periods without any romance in their lives. Getting a Virgo man to fall in love with you can be a long and painstaking task, so be prepared to play the waiting game. Be creative in finding ways to spend time with him that won't make him feel trapped and panicked. All the better if they don't require him to spend any money. Since most Virgo men tend to be a bit mean when it comes to shelling out on dates, they can never turn down a free invitation. Do you want him enough to be willing to foot the bill?
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COMPATIBLE SIGNS FOR VIRGO
Remember that there is a lot more to compatibility analysis than just comparing Sun Signs. To get an accurate picture, it’s necessary to compare both people’s full birth charts. Please write me a
Best Matches
Taurus:
Both Taurus and Virgo are individuals who tend to be more introverted and prefer to stick close to home as opposed to going out frequently to socialize. Virgo’s attention to detail compliments Taurus’s focus on security and vice versa. Although it’s important for both Virgo and Taurus to make sure they exercise patience when it comes to one another, this is a wonderful astrology love match that can make for a comfortable, harmonious union.Cancer:
Although these signs share many differences, they are actually incredibly well suited for one another. Virgo’s practicality when it comes to all matters compliments Cancer’s natural depth of emotion and need for security. Each one brings something different to the table making for a balanced, even relationship. Both Cancer and Virgo natives are also deeply caring individuals that love to dote upon their partners, making this a union full of consideration and compassion.Capricorn:
Virgo and Capricorn have a tendency to be just like two peas in a pod when it comes to many things. They are both hard-working, diligent individuals who place a strong degree of importance on intellectualism and conservative living. Their outlooks in regards to their social life as a couple are similar as well, with both of them preferring quality over quantity when it comes to their circle. It is easy for these two to see eye to eye when it comes to all the major points of the relationship, making their union a harmonious one built to stand the test of time..png)
Worst Matches
Gemini:
These are two signs that have a great tendency to bring out the worst in each other. Gemini sees Virgo as incredibly dull and boring while Virgo sees Gemini as too impractical and flighty. Virgo’s rigidity further clashes with the Geminian penchant for fickleness, often causing Gemini to look elsewhere when things begin to sour. In most cases, this is not a love match built to endure over time.Libra:
A Virgo native’s tendency to be critical and demanding when it comes to the very exacting standards they live by will soon become a nuisance to fun-loving, easy-going Libra. Libra’s seeming flightiness and wishy-washiness will not sit well with accomplishment-oriented Virgo. The two will also find it difficult to get along sexually as well, as Virgo is far more interested in making money while Libra is the one that’s all about making love. Fickle Libra may eventually decide to look for greener pastures elsewhere. This match makes for an extremely complicated relationship in which it will be difficult to find a balance.Aries:
Although this pairing can be made to work with a proper amount of dedication on either side, these two are primarily too headstrong and stubborn in their own ways for things to run very smoothly. Aries likes to be the leader in all things and be the one to call all the shots, while Virgo very definitely has its own way it like things to be done. Aries may also find Virgo’s enigmatic, less direct style when it comes to sexuality to be frustrating.Wild Cards
Virgo:
Although two Virgos are better than one when it comes to getting things done and getting them done right, they must take care that their mutual need to each have things their own way doesn’t get in the way of the greater good. Compromise is the watchword here. If the two can learn to master it, then this relationship stands an excellent chance of success.Pisces:
This is a pairing that can literally go either way. On one hand, Virgo’s practical approach to life can help give dreamy Pisces a sense of stability. Pisces’s imagination can add a whole new dimension to Virgo’s world that they’d never imagined was possibly before. On the other hand, Virgo’s perfectionism and nitpickiness can clash badly with Pisces’s need to have their partner meet boundless ideals. Success depends on the ability of the pair to meet each other halfway.
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